This doesn’t mean that girls aren’t also seen as the problem, but this could be seen as something which happens underground, to speak.
So, while there are loads of newspapers and TV stations that are only too happy to paint all men as being a certain way; there are also plenty of websites and videos online that are delighted to paint all women as being a certain way. It may then be said that it is socially acceptable to put men down but the same can not be said when it comes to putting women down, which is why this needs to be done in a more covert manner.
Loads of Fuel
Sometimes, something small will be used to prove that, while at others, it will be something that is far bigger.
For example, when a woman in the public eye asserts that she has been harassed by a man, not a lot of thought is given as to whether or not that actually took place.
The Accepted Narrative
Thus, no matter whether or not a man is really guilty, he is going to be used to support the view that all guys are the same. Certainly, if a man is found to be guilty the appropriate action ought to be taken, but, without the evidence that he has done anything wrong, it should not be assumed that he has done anything wrong.
The folks in the media who support this view of guys do not seem to care about the damage that something like this could do to an innocent man’s life. It is as though a man deserves to have his entire life destroyed, irrespective of if he’s done anything wrong.
A woman in this way may have been in a number of abusive relationships, as an example.
Seeing a man go from a position of power to being ruined is then going to be extremely satisfying. She probably won’t have met this man, but seeing him go down will allow her to experience revenge.
The Other Side
When it comes to what’s occurring away from the mainstream media, there is plenty of content that essentially goes into how worthless women are. One of the key themes is that girls can’t be trusted and that should they find another guy who has more money/status, they will soon disappear.
Letting of Steam
Due to what a person has been through he will no doubt carry plenty of anger, anger that is very likely to allow him to prevent feeling powerless and helpless, for instance. The experiences that which he reads about online will end up enforcing what he believes.
Even so, what this will do is let him be correct, and this is one of the ego minds greatest needs – being incorrect is seen as something which will lead to death.
A Messy Situation
There are then women who despise all men and guys who hate all women, along with men who despise themselves and pedestalize women and girls who hate themselves and pedestalize guys. Therefore, though it is not possible to say it is only men that are under attack, it’s definitely more socially acceptable to attack men.
If someone thinks that all men/women are exactly the exact same and is happy to see a man/woman suffer, it’s very likely to show that they are carrying a number of emotional wounds. If they were able to get in touch what how they feel under their anger and rage, they may find that they feel rejected, powerless, helpless and worthless, amongst other things.
A Reactive Existence
Being in touch with those feelings is then going to make them feel incredibly vulnerable; whereas being connected with the more surface level emotions (like anger and rage) is likely to allow them to feel strong and powerful. But, while living in this way can let them feel strong and powerful, it is going to cause them to be controlled by how they feel.
Not only this, it is going to stop them from having the ability to realise that not all men/women are the same and also to see them as individuals.
A Deeper Look
When it comes to the emotional wounds that someone can carry, what has happened in their adult life is certainly going to play a part. Yet, what is likely to play an even larger role is exactly what took place during their early years, and what has been passed down from their ancestors may also play a part.
What happened during their early years which could be what is defining how they perceive men/women and the sort of men/women women they’ll be attracted to and attract. If somebody had a father or mother who had been abusive, for instance, it would have probably caused them to experience a lot of trauma, and, it would have laid down the bases for them to be attracted to men/women who would also abuse them.
How they were treated at this stage of their life could have become familiar, and what is familiar is what is classed as secure to the self mind/unconscious mind. The years would then have passed but they are still going to carrying the trauma of being broken and abused.
It is then not going to matter what their conscious mind wants to experience, as their unconscious mind will want to experience what took place all those years ago. The trouble is that if a person is unaware of their early years are affecting their adult life, it’ll be normal for them to feel like a victim and also to blame all men/women.
If going within and working through emotional wounds was easy, it would be a part of everyone’s life One of the greatest challenges to doing this type of work is the mind disconnects from the body to prevent pain, which can result in somebody’s internal wounds being projected onto others.
With this understanding, they can end up seeing themselves as a victim and other people as perpetrators.